CBSE results are out. Social media is buzzing with scorecards, rank updates, and celebration posts. But behind some closed doors, there’s silence, confusion — even tears. As a career counsellor, I’ve seen this unfold every year. And if there's one thing I can tell you, your response as a parent matters more than the result itself.

What They Don’t Need: Judgment, Panic, or Comparisons

Your child already knows their marks. They also know how those marks compare to others.

What they don’t need is:

•  I told you so.
•  Why didn’t you study harder?
• Sharma ji’s daughter scored 95%...

In this moment, they are not just processing numbers — they’re processing self-worth. The fear of disappointing you is heavier than the mark sheet itself.

What They Need: Your Support, Perspective, and Calm

This is your opportunity to show them that marks don’t define who they are.

Here’s what my experience says helps:

• A calm conversation: Ask them how they feel and listen without jumping into advice.
• Validation: Acknowledge their feelings and let them know that disappointment is okay.
• Reassurance: Remind them that this result does not define their future.

Reality Check: Marks Matter, But Only to an Extent

Yes, marks may open some doors like college admissions and scholarships, but it's skills, mindset, and clarity that open many more doors.

If the scores aren’t what they hoped for, it’s time to re-evaluate, not react.

Here's how to proceed:

• Encourage exploration: Guide them to explore careers that align with their interests and passions.
• Shift focus: Remind them that a percentage is just one factor; what matters more is their potential and skillset.
• Seek professional guidance: Talk to a career counsellor who can help them chart a course forward.

Parenting Through Results Season

Be present — not with pressure, but with patience.

• Celebrate effort, not just outcomes.
• Focus on emotional well-being.
• Help them rebuild confidence — that’s the real foundation for the future.

Your child doesn’t need a perfect score — they need a present and empathetic parent who can help them navigate this crucial moment with clarity and understanding.

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